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The Nature of the Ego

Why do people have an ego, which can sometimes be misleading? The nature of the ego can be very dark; there are many urges that can pull a person into behaviours or habits that are not for their highest and best, and that impact on others in a negative or anti-social way. When a person gives in to the urges and temptations that the ego offers, it can lead to them being swayed off their spiritual path into another that is unknown and often unhealthy, leading straight to karmic repercussions.

The ego, however, is not evil, and there is a reason all humans have one. It is the voice that tells you how great you are, and every human on Earth must hold self-belief to be able to hold their position in the world with confidence. A healthy ego is essential to allow you to love, accept and respect yourself as a valuable and valued member of society. An inflated ego, however, will allow your mind to play tricks on you, telling you that you are better than others, more worthy and, therefore, exempt from the rules that would otherwise apply to all, including you.

A child who grows up in a loving home will most likely learn that all people are equal and deserving of respect. As they grow older, hey will feel loved and valued, enabling them to celebrate their own successes while allowing others to achieve success without feeling jealous. People who have had neglectful and unloving childhoods, however, have learned that love and loyalty must be fought for and won, not achieved, and are therefore more likely to have trouble sharing stories and successes. If they feel worthless, they are more likely to develop strategies for putting people down in order to make themselves look or feel better in other people’s eyes, but this strategy rarely fools people for long; it is easy to see through a person who doesn’t believe themselves what they are trying to tell you!

There are many instances of unhealthy egos in the leaders of the world at present, the majority of them being male, but not all. Leaders must believe in their vision and get their followers on board to allow the vision to grow into reality. However, a good leader will facilitate growth and leadership in others, enabling their people to develop skills to benefit the organisation as a whole. Everything and everyone will blossom and thrive. If, however, a leader becomes a dictator, the resulting disempowerment of their people will only lead to disillusionment, resentment and unrest. In this energy, democracy dies and the souls of the leaders, as well as their people, begin to wither.

The Universal Ego accepts that all is one and that everyone is equal and the same. Therefore, in the energy of Oneness, every person can expect to be treated with respect and generosity, accepted for their differences and loved for their uniqueness. In a supportive, nurturing environment, a person will have much more opportunity to value their worth and to put themselves first when necessary, but not at the expense of any other person. This is what people expect of their leaders, and the absence of empathy and compassion in many of the world’s leaders at the moment is causing a widening rift between those in power and those whose livelihoods depend on them as leaders to keep them healthy, abundant and safe. People with inflated egos and flashy displays help no-one but themselves.

If your ego is telling you that you are either no good or better than anyone else, you have work to do! Whatever you believe about yourself will project out to others and will be a radar for them to either trust and believe in you, or to distrust you and to therefore disassociate with you in order to protect their own energy.

I AM Archangel Michael.

The Story of Your Life

If your life was written, how would it read? Would it be predictable and boring, or would it keep you reading to the last page? Would your story be full of surprising twists and turns or sadness and tragedy? Would it be full of family, love, laughter and happiness, or one of endless hardship and struggle? Would the story flow like a river, strong and steady, or be bumpy, windy and hard to follow?

As difficult as it may be to believe, most of your life has already been written by you before you were born! You have designed this journey on Earth to live out lessons, resolve karma and to strengthen your spiritual connection to the All. If your life is extremely hard, it maybe that you have left all of your lessons until this lifetime. If, on the other hand, you feel blessed and lucky, you may be reaching mastery and find yourself teaching and leading others. The life you are living is, then, by design but not out of your control. You must consider whether you are happy with the décor or not and start to take charge of any necessary renovation. If you feel stuck or hard done by, I urge you to reflect on how your mindset has been, what trauma or resentment you have been holding onto and what limiting belief sets you are holding.

No matter how hard, sad or calamitous your story has been up until now, the next page is new, fresh and alive with possibilities! Avoid getting stuck in the story, Dear Hearts, because that may keep you stuck in a lesson that you have already learned and begin a new, unnecessary cycle of hardship. Even if you have to cut your losses to move on, isn’t it better to do that so that you can change direction and focus, beginning the next chapter with positivity and the benefit of hindsight?

Personal and spiritual growth are built on experience, but they are also reliant on learning. If you have made a mistake and learnt from it, your ongoing passage will be paved with deeper understanding of how your thought processes and decision making create opportunities and consequences in your life. There is no choice without a consequence, but taking responsibility for one’s actions takes courage. If you are facing hardships but blaming others, you may still have lessons to learn!

Life is like a stage play – all of the characters have lessons to learn and need to act out their part to learn them. They may help each other to do this, but quite often their journeys are completely different or misaligned to each other’s, resulting in arguments and conflict, misunderstandings, unfair judgements and disconnection. The only solution is for each actor to stay true to their own script and to allow the other actors to do the same.

You only live once in this lifetime! Set your own course and take charge of your journey. Take responsibility for your decisions and actions and allow yourself to learn. When the final curtain comes and you take your final bow, make sure that you can look back on the story of your life with pride and certainty that you did the best you could with the script you were given, and took charge of the moments when life went off-script.

The only one who can change the course of your life for the better is you.

Make this life count.

I AM Yeshua ben Yoseph, the one you know as Jesus.